Uncle Ma 马叔
I deeply understand that young people nowadays are under tremendous pressure. I have two sons who owe a credit card debt of 600,000 yuan, which makes me feel that they are facing a lot of pressure and unable to afford to get married. Nowadays, getting married and buying a house requires too much money. Just the down payment and dowry alone cost several million yuan, which is a heavy burden for young people who have just entered society. I can't even support myself, so why should I get married?
I came to Hong Kong from mainland China mainly to have a better life and earn more money. But after actually coming here, I found that the cost of living in Hong Kong is very high. A meal can cost fifty yuan, and I often can't get used to it. I still prefer spicy Sichuan cuisine because it is appetizing.
I had paralysis when I was a child, and my family spent a lot of money on treatment for me, but at that time the medical technology was poor and I couldn't be cured. Later on, I accidentally broke my arm and it didn't heal properly. The doctor said that I can't do heavy work with this arm. Now I can only receive a small amount of pension, and even after one or two months, it's only a little over 300 yuan. It's really not enough. I only have ten yuan a day. What can I do with that?
In my opinion, there are too many problems in society now, and corruption is serious. As ordinary people, we can't change that. My belief is that we can only take care of ourselves and our families. If we want to do well in this society, the most important thing is to study hard and find a stable and good job in the future. We ordinary people can only strive to change our own destiny. Not all problems can be solved.
So I understand the anxiety and pressure of young people, but I also hope that you can maintain an optimistic and positive attitude. As long as you work hard, believe that life will get better. Don't give up hope. Adjust your mindset and learn to appreciate the small joys in life. Also, communicate more with your family and seek their support. Life has its ups and downs, please persevere, you will definitely overcome this difficulty.
我深有感触,年轻人现在的确承受着巨大的压力。我有两个儿子,他们欠了六十万信用卡债,这让我觉得他们现在压力很大,结不起婚。如今结婚买房需要太多钱,光是首付和彩礼就要好几十上百万,对刚步入社会的年轻人来说是很沉重的负担。我自己都养活不了自己,我还结什么婚?
我从大陆来香港,主要是想过得好一些,赚更多钱。但真正来了以后,发现香港的生活成本非常高,一顿饭就要五十块钱,我常常吃不惯,还是最喜欢吃辣的四川菜,因为四川菜很开胃。
我小时候得了麻痹症,家里为我治疗花了很多钱,但当时医疗技术差,治不好。我后来还不小心摔断了胳膊,也没有治好,医生说我这条胳膊基本不能做重活了。现在我只能领一点养老金,一两个月加起来也就三百多块钱,真的不够用,一天只有十块钱,能干嘛?
在我看来,这个社会现在问题太多了,贪污腐败严重,我们普通人没办法改变。我的观点是,我们只能照顾好自己和家人,如果想在这个社会混得好,最重要的是好好学习,将来能找到一个稳定的好工作。我们普通人只能努力改变自己的命运,不是所有问题都能解决。
所以我理解年轻人的焦虑和压力,但也希望你们要保持乐观积极的心态。只要努力奋斗,相信生活会变好的,不要放弃希望。要调整心态,学会欣赏生活中的小确幸。还要多与家人沟通,获得支持。生活总会有起有落,请坚持下去,你们一定可以渡过这个难关。
我深深明白而家嘅年輕人真係面對好大嘅壓力。我有兩個仔，佢哋欠咗六十萬信用卡債，令我覺得佢哋而家面對好大壓力，結唔起婚。而家結婚買樓需要好多錢，單單係頭期同彩禮就要幾十上百萬，對剛踏入社會嘅年輕人嚟講係好沉重嘅負擔。我自己都養活唔到自己，我仲結咩婚呀？
我由內地嚟香港，主要係想過得好啲，賺多啲錢。但真正嚟到之後，發現香港嘅生活成本非常高，一餐飯就要五十蚊，我經常食唔慣，仲係最鍾意食辣嘅四川菜，因為四川菜好開胃。
我細個時得咗麻痺症，屋企為我治療花咗好多錢，但當時醫療技術差，治唔好。我之後仲唔小心摔斷咗手臂，都冇治好，醫生講我呢條手臂基本上唔能做重活。而家我只能領少少養老金，一兩個月加埋都只係三百多蚊，真係唔夠用，一日只有十蚊，可以做咩？
喺我睇嚟，依家嘅社會問題太多咗，貪污腐敗嚴重，我哋普通人冇辦法改變。我嘅觀點係，我哋只能照顧好自己同家人，如果想喺呢個社會混得好，最重要嘅係好好學習，將來可以搵到一份穩定好嘅工作。我哋普通人只能努力改變自己嘅命運，唔係所有問題都可以解決。
所以我明白年輕人嘅焦慮同壓力，但都希望你哋要保持樂觀積極嘅心態。只要努力奮鬥，相信生活會變好嘅，唔好放棄希望。要調整心態，學識欣賞生活中嘅細確幸福。仲要多同家人溝通，獲得支持。生活總會有起有落，請堅持落去，你哋一定可以度過呢個難關。